The Betchelor

Jared and Kay breakdown the latest episode of Bachelor In Paradise. This episode we see a lot transparent theatrics, old school Bachelor trickery and the ladies are left in control of the roses this week. We are all done with Blake, but what was that weird moment with Kylee (?) Mercedes confronts Tyler and his earrings and has the conversation every woman in America has had with a f*ck boy. Make sure to follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TUESDAY! We are, also, on The Betchelor feed today so HELLOOO, BETCHELOR NATION! Had the extreme honor of talking to one of my favorite hosts Jesse Palmer (@jessepalmer) on what makes the Golden Bachelor work so well, hosting all the different Bachelor franchises, starting in football and so much more! It was a joy to talk to him. Think you will love him more than you already do! I am itching to see who Gerry picks on The Golden Bachelor and, yes, I begged Jesse to tell me! Sign up for our substack for free! https://sobaditsgoodryanbailey.substack.com Also, this show and every show is dedicated to my beautiful mom Rebecca Ann Bailey-July 18th, 1948-August 25, 2023 Timestamps  :31-Show Notes/Welcome The Betchelor 5:12-Jesse Palmer -Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos -Go sign up for the patreon for over 250 episodes NOT on the main feed! https://www.patreon.com/sobaditsgood Also, So Bad It's Good has merch now! Go to www.sobaditsgoodmerch.com to order yours TODAY! If you’re enjoying the insane amount of blood, sweat and literal tears of this pod consider telling a friend or rating us 5 stars on iTunes! Special shoutout to Maritza Lopez (Insta: @maritza.gif) for all of her insanely hard work creating these beautiful pieces of art on my Instagram and patreon page!!  Instagram: @sobaditsgoodwithryanbailey, @ryanbailey25 Twitter:@ryanabailey25 TIKTOK @sobaditsgoodwithryanb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are somehow eight weeks into this journey and Jared and Kay have had it with the fakery, aka Blake and Jess. We are voting a lot of people off the island this week and Jared gives his POV as a stand-up comic when it comes to Katie Thurston's new career path. The roast rocks paradise, sends Rachel into a spiral, and some people really didn't understand the assignment. Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jared and Kay take on fantasy suites with Gerry and things are... off. Leslie and Gerry scale down a slippery rock, and share intimacies, but then Gerry has a hard time the next day with Teresa during a silent horseback ride. There's love bombing, comfort bombing and we are uncomfy. Follow for more @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Jared breaks down the drama in paradise, starting with the fact all the new people have no chance. Kat steals John Henry from Olivia, Brayden gets left at the rose ceremony without a word from Becca (weird!) and Aaron B is in the hot seat. Kay joins for categories and names our villian of the week and who needs to get voted off the island. Follow at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We were left on quite a cliffhanger last week when Gerry had to send one of the three women home, and we pick up with all the women who made history this season. Jared and Kay grabbed their tissues as they recapped this iconic tell-all. The bloopers were bloopering, the women were more inspiring than ever and we all couldn't stop crying. Follow along @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a one-on-one chat, Jared sits down with THE Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner. Jared asks about his famous lion tat, what Gerry plans on doing after the show, and Gerry tells us what he pushed back on while filming the show. Follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This season started as a slow burn but now it's fully on fire. Kat and Jared take on this weeks episode to breakdown Kat's meltdown(s), how people need to learn to speak in "I" statements when breaking up with someone and Aaron B is in the hot seat thanks to the ghost of his ex-girlfriends. Charity crashes the island, and they vote Jess off the island. Follow along @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kay and Jared breakdown each hometown date, and the episode isn't short on cringe. Everyone seems to falling in love with Gerry and Gerry seems... in love with everyone. Teresa has her sisters, Faith has her house, and Leslie has her brother Stuart. We're left on a cliffhanger for next week and Gerry appears to have a meltdown. Follow @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Kay and Jared are fully settled in to paradise and have mixed feelings. The drama has never been better but is everyone just super unlikable? They discuss. Also, they say who is who from the cast of Mean Girls, and you guessed it, Kat is Regina. Karma doesn't care about Kat, or birthdays and comes in the form of Davia who whisks Tanner away for a date. Some guys stay, and some go (we'll miss you John B). Follow along at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hard to believe we are only one week away from hometowns, and these women are fighting for their right to bring Gerry home. This week Kay and Jared breakdown a rather heavy episode of The Golden Bachelor. Faith opens up about her childhood with Gerry while on a make or break date. Leslie feels triggered about her past relationships, and Jared is brought to tears when Ellen goes home. Kay names her 'desperation' her villain of the week. Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we have a special bonus episode where Kay and Jared get to sit down with Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise alum Sean McLaughlin. From quitting his job to find love, to being the resident Ken doll, he spills all the tea. Follow along at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re back in paradise and the drama just doesn't stop. Kay and Jared break down week four, starting off with the ever-looming finale on the poo-baby saga. Then with the arrival of two new men plus the introduction of a dramatic truth box, the temperature on the beach keeps rising and rising. Follow us on @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jared and Kay breakdown this episode from the pickleball tournament, to Susan getting a crystal. We're reminded of the OG franchise when we see Schlubby Joey, and seeing him made us all realize we only want Golden Bachelor moving forward. Kathy has zip-it energy and we saw the moment Gerry was done with her. Oh and apparently, Sandra is missing her daughters wedding... and that's a red flag right? And something no one ever saw coming but Kay cried when Gerry gifted Susan a rose quartz. We all will miss April and her hair trinkets. Follow us at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well this season went out on a whisper. Kay and Sam take this episode to commiserate on how fall we have fallen since season 1. We have two couples, both doomed from the beginning and Netflix frankly wasted our time. Hopefully the reunion delivers because if not, what a wash of a season. Follow along at @thebetchelor on IG! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices